Podcast – Episode 29: Paddle Raise Only Events: Simpler Format, Bigger Impact
What if you skipped the auction entirely and raised more money anyway? In Episode 29, Bobby D. records live from Chelsea Piers in New York City before a paddle raise only event, breaking down exactly how this stripped-down format works and why it might be the right fit for your next fundraiser. From pre-secured gifts and matching opportunities to impact messaging and storytelling, this episode gives you a practical blueprint for running a paddle raise only event that feels smooth, inclusive, and genuinely inspiring.
Podcast – Episode 28: If You’re Not Tracking This, You’re Leaving Money on the Table
Most nonprofits think their gala ends when the last paddle goes down. The best ones know it's just the beginning. In Episode 28, Bobby D. reframes the fundraising gala as a data engine for future revenue and walks through the metrics that actually matter, the different donor types in your room, and why tracking participation by table, by donor, and by giving pattern is one of the most powerful things you can do to raise more next year.
Podcast – Episode 27: Elevate Conference Recap
What happens when you put hundreds of fundraising professionals in the same room for two days? Ideas that change how you think about events, generosity, and community. In Episode 27, Bobby D. recaps the Elevate Conference and shares the biggest insights that stuck with him, from the neuroscience of giving and the biology of gatherings to the progression of generosity framework and why the morning after your event matters more than the night itself. If you work in the nonprofit world, this one will shift how you think about what events are really for.
Podcast – Episode 26: The Gala Checklist | How Great Auctioneers Prepare Before the Gala
What separates a good fundraising auctioneer from a world-class one? In Episode 26, Bobby D. shares how breath control, pacing decisions, mindset alignment, and mission-driven preparation shape donor engagement long before the paddle raise begins. If you want to raise more at your gala fundraising event, start before you ever touch the mic.
Podcast – Episode 25: From Invitation to Impact: Designing a Fundraising Experience That Converts
Most nonprofits plan a program. The ones that raise the most money design an experience. In Episode 25, Bobby D. walks through every touchpoint of the attendee journey, from the first invitation to the final surprise that sends donors home smiling, and shows how each moment either builds trust or creates friction. If you want to raise more, stop asking what's on the program and start asking how every step of the night feels.
Podcast – Episode 24: The Donors of Tomorrow Are in the Room Today
The next generation of donors isn't waiting to be asked for money. They're waiting to be invited into the story. In Episode 24, Bobby D. explores why live events are one of the most powerful and underused tools for next-generation donor development. From creating collective experiences to building long-term loyalty through connection, this episode reframes how nonprofits should think about the donors sitting in the room right now and what it takes to turn them into lifelong advocates for the mission.
Podcast – Episode 23: Why the Best Fundraising Happens Before the Auction Starts
Most nonprofits believe fundraising success happens on event night. It doesn't. In Episode 23, Bobby D. makes the case that the biggest fundraising wins and losses are decided long before the auctioneer ever steps on stage. From structuring the live auction to designing the paddle raise to coaching the board, this episode breaks down what real consultation looks like and why strategy is the thing that makes performance work.
Podcast – Episode 22: The Perfect Gala Guest
Filling a room isn't the same as filling a room with the right people. In Episode 22, Bobby D. breaks down the concept of audience development and what it actually takes to get dedicated donors in the seats at your fundraising gala. From the two things every ideal donor must have to the four T's of fundraising and the power of personal relationships, this episode gives nonprofit leaders a practical framework for building a room where generosity happens naturally.
Podcast – Episode 21: What Last Year’s Numbers Are Telling You
Before you book a venue, pick a theme, or plan a single auction item, there's one thing every nonprofit should do first: look back at last year's numbers. In Episode 21, Bobby D. walks through how to review your gala revenue the right way, what patterns to look for, and how to use what you find to build a smarter, more intentional event this year. Because if you don't look back first, you're not planning. You're guessing.
Podcast – Episode 20: Why Great Auctioneers Don’t Talk Fast
Most people think a great fundraising auctioneer talks fast, cracks jokes, and keeps energy high. In Episode 20, Bobby D. pulls back the curtain on what's actually happening behind the mic. From reading the room and managing momentum to the difference between an MC and an auctioneer, this episode reframes what great fundraising leadership actually looks like and why clarity, pacing, and presence move more money than volume ever will.
Podcast – Episode 19: Starting the Year Off Right for Your Fundraising Gala
Most nonprofits start gala planning too late and pay for it on event night. In Episode 19, professional fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. walks through exactly how to start the year off right so you're not scrambling, not stressing, and not leaving money on the table. From setting a clear fundraising goal to aligning your board early and designing the donor experience with intention, this episode gives nonprofit leaders a simple framework to build a gala that performs.
Podcast – Episode 18: The Gala Checklist: 10 Things That Make or Break Your Fundraising Night
Want a proven checklist to make your next fundraising gala more successful? In Episode 18, professional fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. breaks down the 10 things that separate average events from transformational fundraising nights. From run of show and paddle raise strategy to sponsorships, audience development, and post-event gratitude, this episode gives nonprofit leaders, development directors, and event planners a clear framework to raise more and stress less.
Podcast – Episode 17: Last Paddle Up Strategy for Paddle Raises
Want to boost paddle raise revenue in the final minutes of your gala? In Episode 17, fundraising auctioneer Bobby D explains how to run Last Paddle Up—a competitive end-of-paddle-raise game that can spark one more wave of generosity. Learn the best practices, psychology, and donor-clarity scripts to avoid confusion, protect relationships, and increase nonprofit event fundraising.
Podcast – Episode 16: Gala Magic On & Off the Stage
Want more donor engagement and higher gala revenue without adding more stress? In this episode, fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. and event expert Rob Gardinelli share how to create “gala magic” through ethical storytelling, stronger live auction prep, strategic seating, and post-event gratitude—so your paddle raise strategy and nonprofit donor engagement keep working long after the event ends.
Podcast – Episode 14: More Butts Doesn’t Mean More Bucks
Bigger fundraising events don’t always mean bigger results. In this episode, fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. explains why donor connection, curated guest lists, and strategic paddle raises outperform large crowds—and how nonprofits can raise more money by focusing on hearts instead of headcounts.
Podcast – Episode 13: The 7 P’s of Event Planning
Effective fundraising events rely on strategic planning, not last-minute scrambling. In this episode, fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. explains how prior proper planning improves gala fundraising, strengthens paddle raise results, and creates donor experiences that drive long-term nonprofit success.
Podcast – Episode 12: No More Baskets of Bullsh!t
Many nonprofits waste time and energy stressing over silent auction baskets that don’t significantly impact fundraising results. In this episode, fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. explains why mission-driven storytelling, pre-secured paddle raise gifts, and curated live auction experiences are far more effective at increasing gala revenue and donor engagement.
Podcast – Episode 11: Why Paddles Are Powerful at Your Fundraising Gala
Auction paddles remain one of the most effective tools in gala fundraising because they combine donor engagement, emotional momentum, and clear identification. In this episode, fundraising auctioneer Bobby D. explains why paddle raises outperform phone-based giving, how paddles increase generosity through neurochemical response, and how nonprofits can raise more money while avoiding costly post-event follow-up mistakes.
Podcast – Episode 10: Benefit Auction Summit 2025
Live from Benefit Auction Summit 2025, Bobby D crowdsources battle-tested gala tactics from leading fundraising auctioneers and partners: placing your paddle raise, optimizing guest experience, curating high-yield consignment packages, and using analytics and pre-commitments to unlock bigger gifts. If you’re planning a nonprofit gala or paddle raise, this playbook will help you raise more, with less stress.
Podcast – Episode 9: Is Your Mindset Holding Back Your Fundraising?
Are you limiting your fundraising by projecting your own money mindset onto your donors? In Episode 9 of Auction is Action with U in it!, Bobby D explains why scarcity thinking blocks generosity—and how shifting to abundance unleashes bigger gifts, more paddles raised, and record-breaking fundraising results.