Episode 49: When the Room Works Against You: How to Overcome Challenging Gala Venues and Keep Donors Engaged
Not every venue is built for fundraising. Pillars block sightlines. Tall centerpieces hide bid paddles. A massive dance floor puts donors 50 feet from the stage. In Episode 49, Bobby D. records live from the Tribeca Rooftop in New York City before a gala and walks through the most common venue challenges that quietly cost nonprofits money, and the practical solutions that keep donors engaged and gifts moving no matter what the room throws at you.
Episode 48: Your Space, Your Story: Why Hosting Your Fundraiser at Home Can Raise More
What if the most powerful fundraising venue your nonprofit has access to is the one you already own? In Episode 48, Bobby D. records live from LC Nature Park in Fort Wayne, Indiana, just before a fundraising event on their grounds, and makes the case for why hosting your gala at the place where your mission actually happens can shorten the emotional distance between a donor and the impact they are creating. When donors see the need, experience the space, and meet the people, giving stops being a transaction and becomes participation.
Episode 47: Bad Sound Can Ruin Your Gala (And Cost You Money)
You can have a beautiful venue, a powerful mission story, and a room full of people ready to give. But if they cannot hear what is happening, you are losing them. In Episode 47, Bobby D. makes the case for why professional production is not a luxury line item but one of the smartest investments a nonprofit can make in its event. Bad sound does not just create an awkward moment. It costs you donors, gifts, and the generosity you spent months building toward.
Episode 46: The Golden Goosebump Moment: When Your Gala Is Ready to Give
There is a specific moment at every great fundraising gala when the room is ready. The energy is high, the mission is clear, the donors have their paddles in hand, and generosity is about to become contagious. In Episode 46, Bobby D. breaks down the golden goosebump moment: what it is, when it happens, how to build your entire event toward it, and why the difference between 8:05 and 8:55 could be worth thousands of dollars to your organization.
Episode 45: Your Board Is Costing Your Gala Money — Here's How to Activate Them
Most board members show up to the gala, find their table, and wait for the evening to unfold. In Episode 45, Bobby D. makes the case that your board of directors is one of the most underused resources at your fundraising event, and gives development directors and event leaders a practical activation plan to change that. From the connection hour through the paddle raise to the follow-up call the next morning, this episode tells board members exactly what to do and when to do it.
Episode 44: The Best Fundraising Auction Advice in America Live from Napa
What happens when 140 of the top fundraising auctioneers in the country gather in Napa, California for two days? You get a room full of people who have stood on more stages, read more rooms, and led more paddle raises than almost anyone else in the nonprofit world. In Episode 44, Bobby D. goes around the room at the Benefit Auction Summit and pulls the sharpest insights from industry leaders on what is coming next in fundraising events, donor stewardship, technology, and giving strategy.
Podcast – Episode 43: Stop Entertaining. Start Fundraising.
The most dangerous compliment a nonprofit can receive after their gala is "that was such a fun party." Fun matters, but applause is not a fundraising strategy. In Episode 43, Bobby D. challenges nonprofit leaders to stop designing galas around entertainment and start designing them around intentional donor journeys: from arrival to checkout, from connection to generosity, from a single night to a long-term relationship with the mission.
Podcast – Episode 42: How to Create an "Oprah Moment" at Your Fundraising Auction
What if instead of selling one auction item to the highest bidder, you could identify an entire group of guests who are willing, excited, and financially able to invest in your mission? In Episode 42, Bobby D. introduces the Oprah Moment: a live auction strategy that sells one travel experience to multiple buyers, generates significantly more revenue, and reveals the mid-level donors most nonprofits never knew they had. If you want your live auction to do more than raise money, this episode is required listening.
Podcast – Episode 41: Raise More with Your Paddle Raise: The Best Practices Most Galas Miss
The paddle raise is the most important fundraising moment of your entire gala. But most organizations leave it to chance. In Episode 41, Bobby D. walks through the paddle raise best practices that separate events that inspire real generosity from events that simply go through the motions. From building emotional momentum before the first ask to stewarding first-time donors after the paddles go down, this episode is the complete guide to designing a paddle raise that actually performs.
Podcast – Episode 40: Your Gala Isn't Entertainment. It's Leadership.
What if the biggest shift you could make in your fundraising event had nothing to do with your venue, your auction items, or your entertainment? In Episode 40, Bobby D. challenges nonprofit leaders to stop thinking about their gala as a party and start thinking about it as an act of leadership. Every decision made throughout the evening either strengthens donor belief in the mission or weakens it. This episode will change how you design every moment from the venue to the paddle raise.
Podcast – Episode 39: The Secret to Turning Every Guest Into a Donor
Most nonprofits end their paddle raise and move on, leaving a room full of guests who wanted to give but never found their moment. In Episode 39, Bobby D. breaks down the paddle drop: a simple, high-energy technique that creates one final giving opportunity at the end of your paddle raise, transforms hesitant guests into first-time donors, and sets up the stewardship conversations that turn those test donations into long-term relationships. If you are not doing this at your events, you are leaving money and donors on the table.
Podcast – Episode 38: The Hidden Revenue at Every Gala: 8 Games That Raise Thousands
Most galas rely on three revenue streams: silent auction, live auction, and paddle raise. But what about the guests who are not ready to bid $5,000 on a live auction package or make a leadership gift during the paddle raise? In Episode 38, Bobby D. walks through eight proven revenue-generating games that engage every guest in the room, create energy before your biggest fundraising moments, and add thousands of dollars to your event without extending your program or adding another auction item.
Podcast – Episode 37: Is Your Nonprofit Mindset Holding Your Event Back?
What if the biggest thing standing between your nonprofit and a record-breaking fundraising event is not your budget, your venue, or your auction items? What if it is your mindset? In Episode 37, Bobby D. challenges nonprofit professionals to examine the assumptions, traditions, and scarcity thinking that quietly hold events back, and makes the case for why your mission is too important to be limited by outdated thinking.
Podcast – Episode 36:The Fundraising Event Playbook Nobody Hands You
Most nonprofits plan their gala the same way they did last year. Same format, same vendors, same assumptions. In Episode 36, Bobby D. sits down with his Gala Toolbox co-founder Beth Sandefer of Beth Sandefer Events for a wide-ranging conversation about what it actually takes to design a fundraising event that performs. From the difference between planning and designing to the biggest revenue leaks most organizations never see, this episode is the playbook nobody handed you when you took over the gala.
Podcast – Episode 35: Free Isn't Free: The Hidden Cost of Bargain Auctioneers
Free costs money. It sounds backwards, but if you've ever watched a well-meaning board member kill the room energy with an off-color joke or a rambling ask that left donors confused and checked out, you already know it's true. In Episode 35, Bobby D. records live outside Cipriani Wall Street before a major gala and makes the case for why the free guy is one of the most expensive decisions a nonprofit can make, and what to do instead.
Podcast – Episode 34: Dessert Dash Done Right: Energy, Competition, and Revenue
What if you could raise thousands of dollars, fill a ballroom with laughter, and create a story every donor talks about on the ride home, all in just a few minutes? In Episode 34, Bobby D. breaks down the dessert dash: how it works, why the psychology behind it is so powerful, and how to run one that actually raises money. If you're looking for a fun, low-lift revenue generator that gets every table in the room involved, this one is for you.
Podcast – Episode 33: The Smartest Gala Sponsorship Most Nonprofits Aren’t Using
Most nonprofits treat the auctioneer fee as a budget line item to be managed. The smartest ones turn it into a sponsorship opportunity. In Episode 33, Bobby D. breaks down the auctioneer sponsorship: what it is, why it works, how to pitch it, and which businesses are most likely to say yes. If your organization is leaving this revenue strategy on the table, this episode will change how you think about funding your most important event investment.
Podcast – Episode 32: AFP ICON Conference 2026
What are the biggest trends shaping fundraising events right now? In Episode 32, Bobby D. takes you inside AFP ICON in San Diego, the largest fundraising conference in the world, for a behind-the-scenes look at what nonprofit professionals are talking about, learning, and building toward. From AI-powered donor journeys to frictionless paddle raises and the growing gap between large and small donors, this episode captures the energy and ideas coming out of one of the most important gatherings in the nonprofit world.
Podcast – Episode 31: How to Ask: Making Fundraising Magic Happen
What stands between your mission and a million dollars? One question. In Episode 31, Bobby D. shares his keynote presentation from National Philanthropy Day in Las Vegas, covering everything from the psychology of generosity and the fear of asking to the four P formula, the power of silence, and why every yes creates more yeses. Whether you're a seasoned development director or brand new to fundraising, this episode will shift how you think about asking and help you do it with more confidence, clarity, and heart.
Podcast – Episode 30: From Arrival to Impact: Creating a Frictionless Giving Experience
Your donors show up ready to give. Don't make it hard for them. In Episode 30, Bobby D. makes the case for pre-swiping credit cards at registration and explains why a frictionless checkout experience is one of the simplest, highest-impact upgrades any nonprofit can make to their fundraising event. If your organization is still chasing donations after the event with awkward emails and phone calls, this episode is for you.