Episode 46: The Golden Goosebump Moment: When Your Gala Is Ready to Give
In this episode of Auction Is Action with U in It!, Bobby D. Ehlert digs into one of his favorite subjects: the golden goosebump moment.
This is the time in your event when guests are at the edge of their seats, paddles in hand, ready to take action. Everything before this moment is either building toward it or leaking away from it. And when you hit it at exactly the right time, with exactly the right conditions in place, the financial results are transformational.
Key Takeaways
Studies Show You Raise More Money at 8:05 Than at 8:55
This is not a gut feeling. It is data. If your program runs from 7:00 to 9:00, the sweet spot for your fundraising is around 8:05. This is when guests have the most energy, the most focus, and the appropriate amount of social lubrication. The earlier in the evening you hit your peak fundraising moment, the higher your participation rates, average gifts, live auction results, and paddle raise totals will be. Do not bury your ask under an exhausted audience.Think of Your Gala as a Story Arc with a Crescendo
You have a beginning, a middle, and an end. The golden goosebump moment is the pinnacle: the top of the mountain that everything else in the evening is building toward. Every touchpoint from the save-the-date to the valet to the connection hour to the program sequence is either moving guests closer to that crescendo or resetting it.The Donor Journey Starts Before They Walk Through the Door
Mission-focused communications going out before the event: emails, social media posts, board member outreach, and even a VIP pre-party prime guests to arrive ready to give. Every touchpoint before event night is a building block toward the golden goosebump moment.From the Valet to the Venue, Every Moment Is a Mission Moment
Train your valet team to open with a donor-centric thank you: thank you for coming out and helping save lives, thank you for being a positive force in these kids' lives. Create signage at the entrance. Have board members and organizational cheerleaders welcoming guests as they arrive. Make registration seamless and mission-focused. Every touchpoint teaches guests how to feel before the program even begins.The Connection Hour Should Be Built Around Mission Stations
Set up two to four high-top tables throughout the connection hour space, each staffed by a representative who can speak about a specific program or take guests on a donor journey through the mission. Board members should be moving through the room, keeping conversations mission-focused, and connecting their networks with each other and with organizational leadership. This is still building toward the crescendo.What Guests See, Hear, and Feel in the Ballroom Matters
What is on the screens when guests enter the main event space? What is at their place setting? What music is playing? One organization Bobby worked with placed written testimonials from students at every place setting. Every one of these details reinforces the mission before the first speaker ever takes the stage.The Program Sequence is a Fundraising Strategy
Your first speaker should immediately anchor the evening around fundraising: this is what we are raising money for tonight and this is what it will support. Honoree moments should be tied back to the mission. Storytelling should lead naturally into the live auction. The live auction builds momentum and energy. The transition from the live auction into the mission moment storytelling and then into the paddle raise is where the golden goosebump moment lives.The Mission Moment Before the Paddle Raise Is the Most Important Transition of the Night
This is the video, the speaker, or the combination of both that takes everything the evening has built and focuses it into one clear, emotionally resonant reason to give right now. When this transition is done well, you are not asking donors to give. You are giving them permission to act on something they already feel.The Golden Goosebump Moment Itself Is the Space Between the Story and the Ask
When the mission moment ends and the auctioneer steps forward, the room should already be ready. The ask is not creating the emotion. The program has already done that. The auctioneer is simply channeling it into action: who can start us off at the $25,000 level? And then it cascades. One snowflake starts the snowball. Momentum builds. Participation spreads. And the room raises more than it thought it would.Gratitude Has to Follow Immediately and Continue for Days
Once the energy of the paddle raise is spent, the program shifts into gratitude. What do guests see immediately after they raise their paddles? What happens as they leave? Maybe there is signage. Maybe the valet hands them a warm cookie and a thank you note on their steering wheel. And then the next day: board members call every donor who raised a paddle. Handwritten notes go out. Tax letters follow a few weeks later. The 48-hour window after the event is critical. Use it.
FULL TRANSCRIPT
Bobby D.:
Bobby D here, your host for the Auction Is Action with You in It podcast. Billion-dollar fundraiser, 25 years of experience, founder of Call to Auction, co-founder of inspireheartsfundraising.com and galatoolbox.com. Check those out: great tools to help you raise more money.
Today we are going to be talking about one of my favorite subjects: the golden goosebump moment.
The golden goosebump moment is the time of your event, of your gala, when your guests are at the edge of their seats. They have got their paddles in hand and they are ready to take action. Our goal as fundraisers is all about identifying and creating that golden goosebump moment at the right time, in the right place, with the right conditions to maximize your fundraising dollars.
Studies have shown that you will raise significantly more money in your fundraising auction and your paddle raises closer to 8:05 than you will at 8:55. So let us put that out there right now. 8:05 is your prime time for fundraising, depending on when your event starts. Let us say the program starts at 7 and goes until 9. 8:05 is the sweet spot. And the reason it is the sweet spot is because this is when your guests have the most energy, the most focus, and the appropriate amount of adult beverages ingested.
When you hit this golden goosebump moment, a lot of things happen. You will see your participation levels go up. You will see your average gift per donor go up. You will see higher sales in the live auction. You will see more participation in the paddle raise and higher gifts in the paddle raise as well. The timing matters.
So how do you set up this golden goosebump moment? You have to think about your gala as a story arc. You have the beginning, the middle, and the end. What you are building toward is this fundraising crescendo: the top of the mountain, the pinnacle. Everything you are doing from this point forward until that golden goosebump moment is setting that moment up for success.
Right now, wherever you are in the planning process, you should be sharing your save the date and your invitations to get people aware of the event. And you also need to be sharing mission-focused communications: content that talks about the impact that will be created by the fundraising at the event. This can go out on emails, on social media, directly from board members to their networks. You could also do a VIP pre-party leading into the gala: a day before, a week before, a couple of weeks before. Getting people prepped and ready and primed to give.
Then the day of the gala arrives. Look at every touch your donors have as they are entering your space. What is the first thing they see when they pull up to the valet? Train your valet team to be donor-centric and to thank guests for being there. Thank you for coming out and helping to save lives. Thank you for being a positive force in these kids' lives. Thank you for helping save the rainforest. Whatever the mission is, your valet can start off the conversation right there.
As guests enter the building, this is a great place for signage. Some organizations have their beneficiaries there cheering and thanking people as they come in: really setting the vibe high from the moment they walk through the door. Then you get into registration, which needs to be mission-focused and seamless. Amazon easy is the standard.
Then they move into the connection hour. Remember: we are no longer calling it the cocktail hour. It is the connection hour because this is prime space to connect people with people and connect people with your mission. This is where I love to see organizations set up mission stations throughout the connection hour space: two, three, or four different high-tops with signage and a representative who can talk about each of the programs, take donors on a participant journey through the mission, and answer questions. Board members are moving through the room, keeping conversations mission-focused, and connecting their networks with new faces. All of this continues building toward that crescendo.
As people move from the connection hour into the main event space, what is on the screens? What is at the table settings? What do they see, what do they feel, what do they hear? What music is playing? One organization we worked with had written testimonials from students at every place setting, sharing how much they love the school. These details put the focus on the fundraising and the impact being created.
Then the program begins. Your first speaker needs to talk about fundraising: we are going to have fundraising at this event and this is what it is going to support. This starts putting the focus on moving toward the top of the crescendo.
You may have honorees. Make sure the messaging leading into their award is on point and tied back to the mission. Give honorees an opportunity to speak briefly about why the mission matters to them and why they give. Short and sweet. No boring speeches.
Then we move into the why we're here moment: a higher-level mission video that can talk about your programs and your organization broadly, leading us into the live auction. The live auction happens, your professional auctioneer maximizes the dollars, piggybacking off the emotion of that why-we're-here video. And then we transition into the mission moment that leads into the paddle raise.
This mission moment: a video, a speaker, or a combination of both, needs to hone in on your mission and your impact. And then that is it. That is where the golden goosebump moment lives: in the transition between the mission moment storytelling and the paddle raise. This is where people are ready to take action. If you have done all of these elements correctly leading up to this moment, you are going to see huge financial returns.
The auctioneer makes the ask: friends, this is the time for everybody to come together as a community and give at the level that is inspirational for you. Who can start us off at the $25,000 level? And then it cascades. It builds up into what I like to call the snowball effect. It takes one snowflake to start this big snowball of giving. As that happens, you have got activity, engagement, momentum. The energy builds. And when that energy has been fully spent, we celebrate and express gratitude for what just happened.
Then the program shifts into the gratitude moments. What do guests see immediately after they raise their paddles? What do they experience as they are leaving the program space? Maybe there is signage: thank you for your support. Maybe the valet hands them a warm chocolate chip cookie, a bottle of water, or a thank you note stuck to their steering wheel. There are so many great ways to close the loop that night.
And then the next day: this is when the real fundraising begins. Board members should be calling every person who raised a paddle and thanking them. Handwritten letters go out. A few weeks later the tax letters follow. The 48-hour post-event window is critical. Capitalize on it. Say thank you in an effective, personal, meaningful way.
That is your golden goosebump moment and why you need to have it and how you can create it. Remember: you will raise more money at 8:05 than at 8:55. Put the ask in the right place. Maximize your donors' attention, time, and the potential dollars you are able to raise.
Thank you again so much for joining me today. A little off-the-cuff ramble on the golden goosebump moment but I had to talk about it. Thank you all for watching. Do not forget to visit our sponsors: calltoauction.com, inspirehearts.com, and galatoolbox.com, where you can download a free build-your-gala blueprint. Completely free. Check it out.
My name is Bobby D, your Auction Is Action with You in It podcast host. Thank you for all the work you are doing in the world and the impact you are making by building better events. You are awesome. I am out of here. See you on the next episode.
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